Signs At You Need To End a Long Term Relationship
Bad Conversation
When you two started, you can talk about anything under the sun. And over the years when you get together, the last person you want to talk to is each other. This could be a sign. Of course there are times that what you talk about is boring. Its practically normal. But its another story when everytime your special someone talks to you, you want the conversation to end even before it start. Ask yourself, would you want to listen to him talk for another 50 year? If you answer is no, you might want to rethink.
Low Tolerance
Take for example when you get embarassed when you are together with your friends or family and him. This may also be a sign. You need someone you want to be everytime. If you think being with him is embarrassing or annoying, there is no point to wait for him to chance, especially if you are in the long term relationship. Sure people will grow up, but you cant be sure that his manners also would.
Recurring Issues
If there are issues in your relationship that never gets resolved or occassionally resurfaces when you have arguments, this can also be a sign. You can try to resolve and talk about this, but when the issue gets dragged in an argument, even if its been resolved, you may want to reconsider to end your relationship. If issues keeps popping out everytime you two talks, it only means that the issues aren't over yet with him.
Different Plans
Most of the time, especially when you are in a long term relationship, you tend to plan your future together with him. If you two have different plans and cant seem to compromise with each other, this might also be a sign.
Ending a long term relationship might be hard. Especially if you two have grown with each other. But what if you found someone the right guy and you are still with him. Dont be trapped with an old relationship only because you feel safe.
When you two started, you can talk about anything under the sun. And over the years when you get together, the last person you want to talk to is each other. This could be a sign. Of course there are times that what you talk about is boring. Its practically normal. But its another story when everytime your special someone talks to you, you want the conversation to end even before it start. Ask yourself, would you want to listen to him talk for another 50 year? If you answer is no, you might want to rethink.
Low Tolerance
Take for example when you get embarassed when you are together with your friends or family and him. This may also be a sign. You need someone you want to be everytime. If you think being with him is embarrassing or annoying, there is no point to wait for him to chance, especially if you are in the long term relationship. Sure people will grow up, but you cant be sure that his manners also would.
Recurring Issues
If there are issues in your relationship that never gets resolved or occassionally resurfaces when you have arguments, this can also be a sign. You can try to resolve and talk about this, but when the issue gets dragged in an argument, even if its been resolved, you may want to reconsider to end your relationship. If issues keeps popping out everytime you two talks, it only means that the issues aren't over yet with him.
Different Plans
Most of the time, especially when you are in a long term relationship, you tend to plan your future together with him. If you two have different plans and cant seem to compromise with each other, this might also be a sign.
Ending a long term relationship might be hard. Especially if you two have grown with each other. But what if you found someone the right guy and you are still with him. Dont be trapped with an old relationship only because you feel safe.
